Do you ever notice how some guys just have that magic touch with women in college? You read all day and all night “tips” on how to get the girls but they just seem to fall flat. The ideas that I preach I can promise you do work. I get it it’s frustrating and scary to just walk up to a stranger and strike up a conversation. We need to break that fear today.
Women in College is the best time of your life, I promise you. I was lucky enough to read the book Magic Bullets as I entered into my freshman year at the third top party school in the nation. What followed, honestly, should have been filmed for a reality show. It’s taken you a little longer to stumble upon this shell of knowledge but its not too late!
Lets start off with what you are probably going through currently. Sure you go to parties here and there but once you’re their, you freeze. Perhaps just sticking with you buds and drinking beer. You keep yourself occupied with going out for smokes, playing beer pong, or texting on your phone. What you really want though is to talk to that girl on the other side of the party. So whats stopping you? About thirty steps.
Rejection is hard, but its not life or death. I have gone over in some other articles both here on EzineArticles and on my own personal blog how to both look and feel “cool” so please read those before continuing this article. Now since that’s out of the way lets talk about the real problem, approach anxiety.
This article will not turn you into a stud overnight; I will however give you some pointers that will help your game TONIGHT! Additionally I will point you in the right direction if you want to learn more. My first tip for you is to just “man up” you will crash and burn, many times, we all have. However it is these rejections that help mold our next approach, we learn from our mistakes.
I want you to write down three or four GOOD openers. For some ideas check out my blog, but something along the lines off… hey I was just about to meet my buddies inside but I had to ask… (this is a proposition opener) or just go direct if you can muster up the courage… listen I was just about to head inside, but I had to come over here and tell you that you have the most amazing ocean blue eyes I have ever seen… Take these four openers and keep them in a memo on your phone… read them to yourself at the party and then use them.
After you open you will need to stack some routines in order to segway the conversation as naturally as possible. Nothing kills a set worse then dead air. The point is to not stick on your opener question for more than a min or two. For example if you opened with.
I was just about to meet my friends but I had to ask… did you get those shoes at target I really like them? (careful with this you are negging your target hear so make sure shes above a 7 or 8 in order not to offend them.)
Girl: umm no these are from forever 21
You: Oh well their still nice, Is that the one on BLAN Street
Girl: Ya that’s the one
You: Ya I know where that is, I train right around the block from there
(you just segwayed!!!!!)
Girl: Oh really what do you train for?
You: Blah blah Blah
Get the picture? For a bunch more ideas on openers and segways check out the conquer your campus series. These guys have tested thousands of tactics specifically for getting girls in college. The link can be found on my website below.