I often get asked by readers of my blog, How do I appear cool? I have already gone over the basics in my last article about strictly style and appearance and I recommend you read that as well. The real trick though comes when you emit an aura of coolness around all those around you.
When you walk into a bar are you the first to just sit there with your beer, pressed up against ur chest, hand in your pocket struggling to make small talk with anyone? That’s OK I was the same way before I began learning the ways of seduction.
Now that you are all dressed up, clean, and feeling your best, you already will begin to emit confidence because you know you look your best. Additionally body language is 90 percent of all human interaction. Some key points to remember is stand tall and chest out… you own this room. Keep your beer at your side, arm extended. One of the biggest non verbal signs of nervousness is guys that hold their drinks inf ront of them, subconsciously like a shield.
When talking to women, always remember to demonstrate how much value you have as a potential mate. This does not mean brag about yourself and your money, this is obnoxious. Instead upon first approach make it known that you are just on your way to your friends, this will act like a buffer so the girls know your not some creep around for days. Attempt to body rock… always appear like you are about to leave. For examples:
You: Hey girls, I have to meet my friends over their but I just had to ask your advice about something, my ex girlfriend won’t stop calling me and I see her car parked out in front of my house every other night. I don’t want to be a jerk about it but do you think shes crossed the line?
( notice we told them we are on our way, we mentioned the ex girlfriend ( pre selection/ you are desired) and we mentioned your house( well off/ provider to women)
At this point the conversation would progress and you would be body rocking ( acting like your about to head to your friends). Even if you stumble and can’t think of anything else to say ( there are great ideas on my blog on how to keep a conversation going) at least you got past your first fear and you opened a set! Congratulations!.
The more you open, the higher your confidence and the cooler you will look and feel. Picking up girls is like a chain reaction. It’s the hardest to start but once in motion it will increase exponentially until its just second nature
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